Answer: Ego is about how you want others to perceive you(Identities), while self-respect (#self-esteem) is about how you see and treat yourself with dignity and worth. There is fine line between these and Most of the times, we react based on our ego's rather than our self-respect, largely due to misunderstanding and the interchangeable use of these terms.
#Ego:
When our
ego is strong, we may want others to see us in a certain way that aligns with
our own self-image. If others don’t see us that way, it can sometimes bruise
our ego and affect our self-esteem.
For example, imagine
you're a chartered accountant and someone points out a mistake in your field of
expertise. Your ego, which is tied to your identity as a CA, might feel hurt,
leading you to make excuses instead of accepting the mistake. As humans, we
often interpret criticism of our mistakes as a personal disrespect in front of
others. This blurs the line between protecting our ego and maintaining our
self-respect.
#Self-Respect:
On
the other hand, self-respect is more about valuing ourselves regardless of how
others perceive us. It's about having a strong sense of worth that isn't solely
dependent on #external validation.
When someone tries to
trigger you by insulting you or by doing or saying something that irritates
you, switch off your Ego...if you're easily offended, you're easily manipulated
What others say
doesn’t define you and your soul reality!
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